Feb 12, 2015
Some sad news…..
We had a great walk on the beach this morning and the sun was shining. The phone was ringing as we got back. It was my sister who asked if I was sitting down. Dad had passed away at 9:25 AM this morning. He died doing what he loved, joking with the nurses. It was sudden and totally unexpected and he did not suffer. I did speak to the doctor and he explained that they had just got the blood work back and that Dad had septicemia so things were looking grave indeed. This was a much better way for him to pass.
It seemed to me that the sky got cloudier and cloudier and the day ended with grey skies. Of course I spent the entire day on the phone and will be doing that for days on end.
The sibs and some of the grans were able to go and say goodbye. My brother held his phone to Dad’s ear so that Colin and I could speak our final words to Dad. He did die in his own room, having been moved out of ER about 11:30 PM last evening.
Dad, as my mother had done, has donated his body to the Division of Anatomy at the University of Alberta in order to help further the education of medical students. Therefore I won’t be flying back to Canada. I will be able to begin my duties as executrix from here. Thank goodness the condo has sold.
Tonight’s sunset or lack thereof.
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So very sorry to hear of your loss… You did your very best and happy memories will sustain you.
i feel for you, but he is at peace, with youre mom, sit back and think of good memorys, talk soon be safe luv inger&steve
Oh Contessa, written in the stars. He is shinging brightly.
I have always loved Gibran, we had a piece read at our wedding, perhaps it would be nice to read for your remaining time at the beach.
Take care and hug all that are close.
Sorry Contessa to hear about your Dad. You were such a caring daughter.
Our condolences for your loss.
Gisele & Gunther
Hi Contessa I just read about your Dad passing, Grant and I are very sorry for that. I know how you are feeling, it’s sad but at least you got to spend time with him in the fall. Janet
Contessa
My sincere condolences to you
I pray that may his soul rest in eternal peace and I pray that may you get the strength to overcome the loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time
Kabyer Remtilla
We have heard of your Dad’s passing. So sorry for your loss. I remember losing my father and is it so sad to lose your parent. May your happy moments that you shared with him help you through this time.
Marilyn and Larry
So sorry to hear about your father. I am glad that he went in style sharing words with those around him…much better than to linger in pain or confusion. Our thoughts are with you and your family, as losing a loving father will always be difficult…I know you are glad his suffering is over ..Whenever you return to Edmonton, it will be nice to see you. Enjoy the sun in Mexico, and loving memories of your father. With all my sympathy, take care.
Sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is to lose a parent when you are not near to them. I missed saying goodbye to my dad by one day. Glad to hear that he didn’t suffer too long. Take care. HUGS
Thank you all so very much for your support. It has meant so much to me as you can read in my next post. There are too many comments here for me to reply to each one of you individually but please know that you have a special place in my heart.
Our condolences for your loss , our prayers are with you , your parents are reunited once again for Valentines day,
désolé pour votre perte de votre voisin il ya insulaires en pierre année, take care,
Merci Michelle et Pete.
Contessa, I’m so sorry to hear about Albert. He was a charmer! You can just picture him chatting with the nurses with a sparkle in his eyes! It truly is a blessing that he passed with peace and dignity. I know the pain of loss and there is nothing like a hug to let you know you are loved! You have done a lot for your Dad and you have to know he appreciated you dearly! Wishing you peace and comfort!
Mona
So sorry for your loss. No words can adequately express the loss and pain your family are experiencing.Remember all the good times, let them sustain you through the worst.
We are so sorry to hear this news Contessa! We have been away for a couple of days and not keeping up with blogs so I missed the news. It is a sad time but he was doing what he enjoyed so it was not a bad way for him to go.
Take care of yourself and stay positive. Get lots of rest, things will work themselves out. We are thinking of you!
Croft & Norma
Oh, I’m so sorry I didn’t check your blog sooner! So sorry you have lost your dad! Hang in there, it’s a big job trying to do everything long distance.
So sorry to hear (read) about your dad. Sorry you have to go through this. However….”this too shall pass”. You will be ok. It does sound like you have everything under control.
Maria
Contessa – so sorry for your loss. I’ve been keeping up with all you’ve been through this year – was so glad you could get back to Maz. You did all you could do for your Dad (and more!) – I hope the memories you and he shared will bring you peace in the coming days. You’re in our thoughts and prayers.
Our condolences to you and Colin with the passing of your dad, Contessa.
Hi Contessa….We were in Florida for the month of Feb with little or no internet service so I became really behind in my favourite blogs. Finally caught up and was so sorry to see your Dad had passed away. I’m sure he and your Mom are looking down and thanking you for all you did to make his final days as comfortable as possible. Boy, those medical people didn’t know what hit them when you got on the scene……you were awesome in what you demanded and eventually got results. I hope his passing was peaceful and painless. The fight is over for you all now.
My Dear Contessa,
I had sketchy Internet all winter while in Puerto Peñasco and realized from what you just posted recently that your beloved dad had passed away.
Please forgive me for not sending condolences. I’m so very sorry for your loss. I lost my own dad at twelve years of age and actually never got over the sense of loss.
Please know that I’m thinking of you…
Cheryl