Aug 23, 2022
A day we will never forget
I had rented an Alamo car for our short time in Vancouver. First we waited in a line for 40 minutes – there were only two staff members working as they were short staffed. I also noticed while we waited that those who had already gone through the line were sitting and impatiently waiting for their car rental to a actually appear, the one that they had paid for. Some waited as long as had been in line, perhaps longer. So when it was finally our turn, I made a point of mentioning that we were in Vancouver for a special memorial service and that we were short of time. The lady was very sympathetic and said she would put us ahead of everyone else. She called the supervisor and then asked if we would take a pick-up truck, ummm no!! Within five minutes we got a lovely medium size car. It appears that there is not enough staff to check in the returns and get them ready for the next customer. Our car had a huge dent in the front right fender and inside damage on the passenger door. Colin took photos just in case.
We finally got out of the airport, so much traffic. It has been a long time since we were in that area of Vancouver/Tsawwassen/Ladner and there were many changes including all new roads, new homes being built and new off ramps, etc. We loved living there when we did but with all the changes we are happy to remain in our tranquil home on the lake.
We arrived at the church rather early so we waited a bit before we went inside. A very lovely church that we had never seen before. Katie was born in Yugoslavia and met Louie in 1948 after WW11 in a refugee camp in Austria. They met at a dance, I love that, something I never knew. As an aside they got married in 1953, the year I was born. The Lutheran Church sponsored Katie’s parents and they immigrated to Ohio. Katie and Louie kept up their long distance romance alive with almost daily letters. Eventually Katie moved to Calgary, Alberta and they married. From there they moved to Tsawwassen, BC. There is a reason that I am sharing this story.
The service was lovely and the three hymns sung reached deep into my heart. Of course I cried and cried even more. Katie had planned every word of her service and even the reception. Karoline’s eulogy was the exception and she shared some special moments of Katie’s life. Karoline, you did a fabulous job of honouring your mother. Thank you Katie for the wine at the reception. Oh how Katie and I loved our wine. It was so heartfelt to spend time with Louie but he had so many others to speak with. We had moments with each of the family members and we learned even a few more things about Katie. Kim told us that our girls rated above us in the love department. I agree and that was as it should be. Barry told me a few things that I didn’t know, things that Katie had shared with him about us. All so very special. And then Karoline gifted us with a keepsake that keeps Katie in our heart in our home. More on that another time. Not ready to share yet. Suddenly Louie was alone and we got some precious time with him. We love him so much. He asked us to kiss the girls for Katie when we got home last evening. I told him that we would but also we would kiss them for him. The most difficult thing we did was to leave Louie and leave for the airport. I am crying as I write this. Gary thank you for the advice about the tunnel.
The tunnel was our downfall. Even though we had lived in Tsawwassen and knew the area we both had forgotten about the dreaded tunnel which goes under the Fraser River to Vancouver. Gary, Kim, Barry, all told us to use the HOV lane but cautioned us that it might take an hour or more to get to the airport. The minutes were passing swiftly, we were so happy to get an extra 10 -15 minutes alone with Louie. Louie thought that we were spending the night and was surprised that we were leaving so quickly. We had a baby sitter at home looking after our girls. Leaving was the most difficult part of the day. We had no choice.
Colin is a great driver and we got to the airport. However we had to stop and fill the rental car tank ( $10.00 ) at the airport Petro Can. Line up in all the lanes. Finally Colin moved ahead and backed into a pump. Done. Off to return our rental. The fellow checking us in only cared about the fact that we had filled the fuel tank. He told us how busy and short staffed they were, especially on a Monday. He was rushing our car to the next person in line for a car. No cleaning of course.
Rush, rush to security, again we were sent to the front of the line. Did we look that old or was it our clothing? Only two people ahead of us. We needed a second tray for the keepsake that we had been given. Interesting system at Vancouver Airport ( YVR ). You put all your things in a bin and as the person doing the X-ray screening watches, they have the choice to send your bin to an off chute line for special inspection.
Turns out that we had been flying into a red alert thunderstorm warning. Shortly after landing we coasted to a stop. Because of the red alert we could not move anywhere. The pilot shut down the engines and we sat in a hot plane for about thirty minutes. Hmmm, so there we were, in a metal box in the middle of a runaway. Colin fell asleep 😯 He was hot in his heavy clothes. Meanwhile I was texting Inger who was at our place with the twins, telling me how bad the storm was. Turns out we had over 1.03 inches or rain in a very short period of time.
I leave you with something the minister shared with us that had been said at the Queen Mother’s funeral in 2002. So very perfect and intensely felt.
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Such a well written piece about your friend! So glad you could go and be there for her service. Travelling these days you must have patience and grace! Glad you got to relax in the lounge for a bit! The stainless photo is stunning! So sorry for you loss! ?
A long day for a short visit but well worth doing. I’m glad you went.
Such heartfelt words about your friend’s funeral/memorial, Contessa. You and Colin were very lucky to have Katie in your lives for so long. I hope that you will share the hymns, perhaps later? Again, I am so sad for your loss; sending prayers for peace, comfort and understanding.
That was a long, long day but it sounds as though the service went well and the travel could have been much worse.
I bet you were as excited to see the girls as they were to see you!
?Thank you so much for sharing the program of Katie’s funeral. When I read the chosen scripture from the Gospel of Luke I was a bit puzzled until verse 4, 5, 6 and then I think I got it. That scripture is also in Isaiah 40:3-5. The hymns were beautifully and fittingly chosen to go with the scripture and I understand why you were moved to tears, Contessa, by them as well as your grief for your special friend. I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers of comfort, peace and understanding for both of you.
Sending healing hugs,